On May 4, 2013—the anniversary of the death of her
firstborn, Adrian —she graduated with honors alongside her youngest son, Allen,
from Norfolk State University. Once she graduated, the couple decided they
wanted to experience a new beginning. Even though the state of Virginia was
where many of their family members lived, it was also the place where many
heartbreaks took place. So they left their ranch-style home in Chesapeake and
headed to Charlotte, NC. They had fallen in love with the city and saw it as a
place to make new and exciting memories. They knew that a church home was
important to both of them, and they were blessed to join Calvary Church under
the leadership of Pastor John Munro. William settled in and began to make
friends, as did Judy. She became a camp counselor for the Vacation Bible
School, after which she was asked to serve as a fifth-grade Sunday School
teacher.
Then sickness began, starting with Judy’s mother, Lucretia,
who actually decided to be baptized there in her late 80s. After she was on the
road to recovery, William became ill—then Judy. It became an ongoing circle of
illnesses in their household, and church attendance became less and less.
Eventually, William no longer drove. When there was a break in sickness,
transportation became an issue. They began attending virtual services, with an
occasional attendance here and there. Virtual worship became their way of life,
with a few church visits now and then.
One of the churches they visited was in Greensboro, NC,
before William stopped driving—Cedar Grove Tabernacle of Praise, where Pastor
J. Troy Blackwell serves as overseer. The church hosted a beautiful book
signing event for Judy. The love and support from its people was the reason
William and Judy agreed that they wished it wasn’t so far away—that they would
love to become members. They had known the pastor and his wife, Kim, for over
35 years. Before Overseer Blackwell answered his call into ministry, they
actually served together at Oak Grove Baptist Church.
When William went home to be with the Lord on Saturday,
November 29, 2025, Judy felt the need to be covered. Her heart led her straight
to Cedar Grove. She knew that it was the Spirit of God because, even though it’s
nearly a two-hour Sunday morning drive, God makes provisions. It has become
home, with no unrealistic expectations regarding her attendance. When
transportation can’t be provided, she isn’t in the building, but she is still
in the number.
She continues to grow and serve as a member of Cedar Grove
Tabernacle of Praise under the leadership of Overseer John Troy Blackwell—a
covering that aligns with her season of elevation, healing, and purpose.